Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Michael John Wilcox with the following comment:
This is a possible family member, from my grandfather's family which was split up by the early death of his father (my great grandfather). There is little point in circulating my contact details unless I can confirm I have the correct person.If that is confirmed, then this may open up a whole new side of my family. What a most helpful service this may turn out to be. Most grateful. Colin